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FeedingBy the Habla Con Ana team

When your child refuses food

The difference between food selectivity, sensory rejection, and functional feeding difficulty.

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Not all rejections are the same

When a parent says "my child doesn't eat", what they experience as a single problem can technically be three different things:

1. **Food selectivity** — eats a limited variety, but adequate quantity 2. **Sensory rejection** — specific textures, flavors, temperatures, or presentations trigger rejection 3. **Functional difficulty** — the oral motor system (chewing, sucking, swallowing) can't manage certain foods

Each has a different approach. Treating a functional problem as if it were selectivity can make things worse. Treating selectivity as sensory rejection can generate unnecessary anxiety.

How to distinguish

  • If they reject BEFORE tasting (visually, by smell): probable sensory component
  • If they taste but choke or cough: probable functional component
  • If they eat but only 5-6 specific foods: selectivity
  • If they reject from early infancy with history of breastfeeding difficulty: possible long-standing oral-motor component

What we do in evaluation

We observe a real meal. It isn't a test in an isolated office — it's understanding how your child eats day to day, with the posture, utensils, and habitual sensory environment. That observation + clinical interview + standardized scales lets us distinguish which of the three categories (or which combination) is at play.

We're here to help you sort it out.

This content is educational and does not replace an individualized professional evaluation. Habla Con Ana is a bilingual pediatric speech, language, and feeding center in Condado, San Juan, founded by Ana Cristina Morales, MS CCC-SLP.

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